Hey girls: have you ever thought about eating alone? Spoiler: it’s a BRILLIANT idea! Let’s find out why an evening of “just me and my plate” can be an adventure not to miss!
Eating alone out: why you shouldn’t feel embarrassed
Question:
When you have to take a shower, brush your teeth, read a book, use your phone, or go to work, there’s always someone keeping you company every moment and constantly, right?
So why should going out for dinner alone ever make you feel uncomfortable?
You already do so many other things by yourself…
Take courage! There’s nothing embarrassing about taking an evening for yourself.
Who cares if people look at you strangely? Your happiness is your main course, the rest are just boring side dishes.
You don’t have to feel embarrassed or “weird”.
Choosing to go out to eat alone without someone to accompany you means you’re free to choose, and you’re choosing to go out on your own and enjoy some peaceful tranquility.
Who can judge you for this? Nobody.
Plan this dinner, even just to break up your daily routine and get to know yourself better, and don’t see it as something “wrong”; rather, it’s an act of confidence in yourself!
Feel free to enjoy an evening alone and don’t worry about others’ judgments.
After all… company is a choice, not an obligation! 🥰
Eating alone out, a way to break down prejudices and stereotypes!
Breaking stereotypes is almost a “duty” you have as an emancipated and liberated woman.
Going out for dinner alone can be a way to shout to everyone:
“I am a woman, hear me roar!”
or even:
“Yes, I adore myself, so what?”
“Hey world, I don’t need a knight in shining armor to enjoy dinner!”
Moreover, taking an evening just for yourself helps put an end to situations and ideologies that are too “old-fashioned”…
For example: you may have witnessed a scene where you were with friends and there was a man eating alone at the table next to you…
If he can do it and is not embarrassed, why should a woman feel embarrassed or be observed strangely?
Or better yet, why do you think you can’t do it too?
There’s nothing better than enjoying an evening with our fantastic company – yes, with ourselves!
Break the patterns and knock down overly antiquated questions about female life. Be a free woman and distinguish your character by making choices that promote your well-being and happiness.
Who knows if one of these might be taking the bold step of going out to eat alone…!
(ps: if you do, you may not regret it… and if not, you can say you tried it too! 😜)
Eating out alone is a sign of great self-esteem.
Ah, didn’t you know?
It may seem trivial but it isn’t… discovering that you can do something alone without the support of others is one of those things that will boost your self-esteem and make you feel a high sense of satisfaction.
And besides… being a confident woman is very attractive.
If you choose to dine alone, you will show the whole world that you are not afraid to enjoy your own company; this sign of great self-esteem will be positively perceived by those lucky enough to meet your gaze. 😉
Eating alone doesn’t mean isolating oneself but rather enjoying one’s own company:
Eating alone doesn’t mean isolating oneself; on the contrary, it’s a way to give oneself some time.
Today, there’s the concept of going out alone, called “solo dates”. It’s nothing more than a date just for ourselves, widely promoted on TikTok with the hashtag #solodate. An approach that highlights the benefits of experiencing a moment just for ourselves.
The caption is present in many videos and reads: «If you’re reading this, it’s a sign that you should go on a solo date»;
Many of these videos tend to follow a consistent pattern: the person posting takes us along to the appointment, films the arrival at the cinema, a market, an exhibition, a bookstore, or a restaurant for dinner. Sometimes there’s background music, other times a reflective voice-over:
“The only way to get to know ourselves and understand what we truly like is to spend time alone.”So, if you’re looking for another perfect excuse to convince yourself, know that we have this one too: going out on your own is now trendy… and so you might run into someone who’s having a date just like yours!
Why eating alone outside might be a good idea?
And now the question you might ask yourself: “why should I do this madness?”
Besides breaking stereotypes and demonstrating your independence, eating alone can be the first step towards an important encounter. The perfect opportunity to meet new people, to open your mind and heart.
And who knows… you might end up sharing a laugh (or a portion of fries) with someone special…In short, we can tell you that choosing to eat alone is an act of love towards yourself, as well as a blow to monotony and an opportunity to experience new things.
Don’t let the fear of “what others will say” prevent you from having fun or… falling in love! 🍽️ 💘
If, however, nothing special happens on that occasion…
there’s always Yooppe to meet someone to go out to dinner with!
