Have you encountered too many wrong men and are looking for a way to avoid them? Today, you can finally discover the 4 types of single 40-year-old men to avoid instantly!
Single at 40? The best gift you’ve given yourself is the chance to start over from scratch
First of all, congratulations, dear woman, along the 40-year journey, you managed to leave behind wrong men and choices, making you a truly strong woman who has just achieved victory!
Be proud of yourself; you can now wear the awareness of not being trapped in the “toxic” whirlwind of some men and have moved forward, all to give yourself the opportunity to start again.
If you’re trying to get back in the game, then you need to know: love is not a dream, and it especially has no age! You have the same chance of finding it at 40 as someone who is 20, provided you don’t seek it in certain types of men.
There are single men with characteristics that it’s better to avoid if you want to escape heart problems…
Today we present “the human cases to dodge,” men who are not ready to commit to anything loving and constructive.
Get ready to meet them and jump on a Cadillac to speed away from them.
Ready? Vroom, let’s go!
40-Year-Old Singles: “The Narcissist”
He’s called “the narcissist” – the man who presents himself as the perfect man, the Prince Charming with the white horse, the one you’ve been waiting for forever.
Super attentive and kind, he puts you at the center of his world in such a short time without you asking.
“Wow, is it a dream?” Yes, it is.
He anticipates your every need and does everything to indulge your tastes and desires.
Yes, he does, but only at the beginning: soon, this angelic and “Disney story” behavior will be replaced by an ambiguous and moody personality that will make your life a real hell.
Generally, a man suffering from narcissistic personality disorder is someone obsessed with physical appearance and the image he has of himself. He does everything to please others and lacks empathy, thinking that everything is owed to him and considering himself the master of the world.
Do you have problems or a difficult situation to face? You won’t have any priority for him.
Your needs and problems will always take a back seat, of course, behind his.
Pay attention to how he treats others, especially in the very first conquest phase where he will do everything to mask his true identity.
40-Year-Old Singles: The one with “Peter Pan” syndrome
Oh yes, he’s really different: a pleasant and fun man, capable of making you experience moments full of lightness and… passion!
Too bad he’s so busy shaking off problems that he will always remain an eternal “Peter Pan,” the incurable child who doesn’t want ties or an evening story to build something solid.
So if you intend to go beyond frivolities and fulfill your love dream, there’s nothing else to do but run away from him!
Contrary to popular belief, men with “Peter Pan” syndrome are often sincere and show their real intentions right away, unlike “narcissists” who use tactics and ambiguous attitudes.
So don’t try to make him more adult or change his mind; the only fault he will have is always being a little afraid to grow up. Instead, you could live your relationship as a momentary flirt without giving up that touch of passion that never hurts!
40-Year-Old Singles: “Make way, we need to call Mom!”
Okay, this one’s tough!
To recognize a man tied to his mom, first, be careful not to fall into the “stereotype” concept!
This means that not necessarily a man tied to his family is a “mommy’s boy,” but it’s something more.
If we were to give a practical example, we could mention the mommy’s boy with the following sentence:“I’ve had several relationships, some short and others longer… What didn’t work? They weren’t right for me. My mom has always been right from day one.”
If Mom has managed to settle into the relationship so well as to decide which woman best “marries” her son, forget it: you would find yourself playing a game of chess with her and giving up conquering him.
But not only that: a “mommy’s boy” could also be the one who is incapable of managing himself and has never experienced life on his own.
In simpler terms, a man who has no idea what it would entail to live a life outside his home, away from his parents and, in particular, away from his mom:
If there’s a problem with the oven in the kitchen, Mom is the first person to call!
If you need to wash your clothes and clean the house, “Mom” takes care of it.
These are just some signs that will make you understand that you have encountered a man still too attached to Mom, so if you don’t feel like being his mom in turn, it’s better not to have any strange thoughts about him…
Move on to the next and let the love story with his mom have a “happily ever after“!
40-Year-Old Singles: The “Jealous Boyfriend”
And here we go again: “Look, I’m jealous, you’re mine and that’s it, got it baby?” – sorry, we stopped because we got a little shiver at the “baby“…
When was the last time you heard this phrase?
Probably in the first year of high school when you weren’t yet able to confess to “the one you had a crush on.”
All very cute, except that now you’re “grown-up,” and therefore these phrases give you shivers only because they make everything unreal and childish…
Even worse is encountering someone who throws hysterical scenes without reason:
“You know, I didn’t think you could do it… you’ve been online for 10 minutes, during which I managed to understand that you’re chatting with someone else. Congratulations...”
And here, dear woman, is how the attraction phase quickly dies!
Take the Cadillac we talked about at the beginning and start the engine; you’re still in time!
When you’re a 40-year-old single, proud of yourself and you know it:
Well, now you know which men to run away from, all you have to do is get back on track!
And remember… be proud to have left behind wrong relationships; you weren’t the wrong one, and you’re not now!
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Good luck!
